If you listen to a lot of men talk, younger women are the Holy Grail of dating. No one can manage to get them, but everyone wants them. They’re hotter, they’re sexier, and they’re easier…right?
We’re out to tell you that if you’re going to be hooking up with local slags, a younger woman might not be what you’re looking for at all. These women may be lovely, but they’re not always everything you’re looking for in a woman, whether you realize it or not. Make sure you have the right reasons for hooking up with a woman of any age, and especially examine whether or not hooking up with a younger woman is right for you.
They Have Less Stamina
You might think that a younger woman will have more stamina than an older one, but this is surprisingly untrue. We’ve found over our time of dating women of every age that the women who are five or 10 years younger than we are tend to be fans of going once, then immediately leaving or showering and going to bed. They also tend to be fans of sexless intimacy more than older women, meaning they’re less secure about their sexuality—they mainly want to be cuddled and petted all night. We’re not against cuddling and petty a lovely younger woman, but it’s not the same as a raunchy romp through the sheets.
They’re Expecting to be Spoiled
A younger woman is expecting that you’ll be grateful just to be going out with her. They think they’re doing older men a favor by hanging on their arm all night, which can be difficult for a man to handle. It’s best if you’re not intending to spend too much time actually spoiling this girl, because the regular hookup tricks aren’t necessarily going to work all that well. They might enjoy a little gift at the beginning of the night, but that doesn’t mean they won’t want more gifts as the evening goes on, or more promises of things in the future. Essentially, these women feel like you’re lucky just to have them there, and they don’t want to do any more work than that.
They Have Higher Standards
A younger woman is looking for a few things in any man she dates, and she’ll be the first one to tell you about it. Annoyingly, these characteristics are rarely something that you (or any man) can achieve. Instead, they’re a load of nonsense she’s garnered from magazines, since she’s never been out dating in the real world before now. Eventually, women get over their unrealistic expectations of men, but a woman several years younger than you are now is still going to have those ideas entrenched. If she doesn’t, she’s probably seen too much of the world too quickly, and you’re going to spend as much time consoling her as you are on having fun. Either way, a younger woman’s high standards are no fun for anyone.