We’re not saying that you have to stick to the idealistic young cuties that are pretty thin on the ground. It is important to note that if you’re going to be going after a woman with a few more miles on her, you’re going to be doing a bit more work. These women aren’t as easy to impress, and they have a lot of needs that can easily translate to demands if you’re not careful. While dating a woman who knows what she wants can be great in some ways, it’s also a lot more work. Make sure you’re ready for what dating an older woman will entail, because it will probably mean you have to deal with some of these issues.
She Has a Busy Schedule
Women who’ve been around for quite a while have their own careers, and they’re usually pretty entrenched in them. These women might also have ex-husbands, ex-boyfriends, and possibly children that they have to take care of them before they can do little things like have hookups with men. This means that these women will have a lot to work around, so make sure you’re all right with having your plans canceled on you at the last moment. It can be worth it if you find the right woman, but there’s definitely something to be said for the fact that a younger woman has a lot more time available on her hands between uni classes.
She’s Seen it All
There are some younger women that you can impress by just showing up. Older women, on the other hand, are a lot less likely to be impressed with the nice scented candle you’re going to give her on your first date. They’ve been given those gifts before, and they know exactly how the hookup goes and is supposed to go. They’re not impressed by your sex moves, though they can be casually interested. Of course, this doesn’t go for all older women, but if you’re going to be hooking up with one who hasn’t spent her whole life in a convent, she’s been around the block a time or two and could have been more impressed.
She’s Not Susceptible to Flattery
Most older women have heard every line that you can try on them. They know that their eyes aren’t diamonds, and they know that they’re not likely to be the most beautiful woman you’ve ever seen, or they’d be models and actresses by now. This can make giving compliments to older women a more labor-intensive chore—you don’t want to offend them by just sprouting off a line, but you still want them to make sure they know that they’re beautiful to you, and that you enjoy spending time with them. This will require you to walk a thin line, but you can manage it if you meet an older woman you really want to get to know better. Otherwise, stick with the uni girl after all.