There are some advantages to small town life—but when it comes to hooking up with sexy slags, the win definitely goes to those who live in cities. If you’re hooking up somewhere that there’s a large scene, you’re going to have the best luck for finding women. This may seem obvious (more women in a smaller area means more chances for hookups), but you might not be taking full advantage of all of your opportunities. Cities provide great ways for you to hook up with women, and you have to make sure you’re taking advantage of all of them if you want to maximize the number of hookups you’re getting.
Use Free Events
There are endless opportunities to see nature in small towns—but not much. In a big city, however, there are countless forms of free entertainment. Better, in the big city everything tends to be open much later, making it easier for you to spend time with your ladyfriend at any time of day. If you’re not exactly flush with cash at the moment, this can be a lifesaver. You won’t even need to pay for a meal or drinks at a restaurant if you take her on a walking date through the lit-up streets, and you can always make sure you’re getting the most of a date by walking her just past the hotel where you’re planning to end the evening.
Know Your Routes
Very few things make a woman feel more interested in spending time with a man than when he seems in control of the situation. Women are always attracted to men of means and influence, even if they’re not doing it consciously. This means that if you’re going to take her for a cheap date, even if it doesn’t look cheap, you’re better off asserting the fact that you’re in control of the situation. Make sure you know the area you’re taking her to before you go there. You’ll be able to pull off looking like a man of knowledge and confidence even if you’re there for the first time, as long as you know where you’re going.
Become a Regular
One thing that can end hookups unfortunately early is the fact that many women are reluctant to go home with men they’ve just met. This is, in large part, due to the fact that women are conditioned to be afraid of strange men they’ve just met for the first time. This is true even if you’ve been talking for a while online. If you take a woman somewhere they know your name, especially if you can order “the usual,” she’s going to instantly feel more at ease around you. Nothing is less trustworthy than a man who’s just come to town, and you want her to be able to trust you implicitly, if not explicitly. The man behind the bar who gave you a friendly nod as you entered is now your best friend and wingman.