First Emails that Work

The first email for one night stand online dating is very important, of course. You want to make sure you’re not doing anything too wrong, since you’re going to be essentially betting your future of meeting up with this woman on that one little message.

Here are some examples of nsa messages we’ve used in the past. Go ahead and use these for templates, if you want; just make sure to change the woman’s name (and her profile).

Email 1:

“Hi, Elise. I love that you’re so involved in your uni’s choir. A woman with passion is one of my interests; I love being able to make her lose herself in ecstasy. I’d like to contact you again, when we find another interest in common.”

Email 2:

“Hi, Martha. Wow, you’re only 27 and you’re already a practicing physician? I love a smart woman who knows how to use her smarts. I’d say we could meet up to swap med school horror stories, but I know I’d have something else in mind.”

These are good as long as you change them a little.

Go ahead and modify them for your personal use. We can’t guarantee them, but they certainly worked for us. They’re a good guideline—include a compliment (NOT about her tits), and reference something on her profile so she knows you’re not just looking at her photo.

Make sure you ask what she wants.

This is much more important after the initial stage of the conversation. You want this woman to be all about making you happy, of course, and the best way to do that is to guarantee to her that she’s going to have a good time in bed with you as well.

Make sure that your desires match up with hers before you try meeting up. Otherwise, you’re risking a boring night with no payoff, and that’s not how you want to spend your evening or hers.

Awkward sexual evenings are for teenagers.

If you’re not into what she likes, move on immediately. There are lots of women out there, and you don’t need to waste your time on someone that’s going to be more of a hassle than a good time. Bear in mind that she’s probably not going to be thrilled with your prowess either if she’s not acting like she’s all that invested in you yet.